John Chapter 4: Marriage & Divorce, Women Preaching

    1: When therefore the Lord knew how the Pharisees had heard that Iesous made and baptized more disciples than John 2: Though Iesous himself baptized not but his disciples 3: He left Judaea and departed again into Galilee 4: And it was necessary for him to pass through Samaria[1] 5: Then came he to a city of Samaria which is called Sychar near to the parcel of ground that Jacob gave to his son Joseph[2] 6: Now Jacob's well was there Iesous therefore being wearied with his journey[3] sat thus on the well and it was about the sixth hour 7: There came a woman of Samaria to draw water Iesous said to her Give me to drink 8: For his disciples were gone away into the city to buy food 9: Then said the woman of Samaria unto him How is it that you being a Jew ask drink of me which am a woman of Samaria for the Jews have no dealings with the Samaritans 10: Iesous answered and said to her If you knew the gift ho Theos and who it is that says to you Give me to drink you would have asked of him and he would have given you living water 11: The woman said to him sir you have nothing to draw with and the well is deep from where then have you that living water 12: Are you greater than our father Jacob who gave us the well[4] and drank of it himself and his children, and his cattle 13: Iesous answered and said to her Whoever drinks of this water shall thirst again 14: But whoever drinks of the water that I shall give them shall never thirst but the water that I shall give them shall be in them a well of water springing up into everlasting life 15: The woman said to him Sir give me this water that I thirst not neither come here to draw.[5] 16: Iesous said to her Go call your husband and come [back] here 17: The woman answered and said I have no husband Iesous said to her You have well said I have no husband[6] 18: For you have had five husbands and he who you now have is not your husband in that you answered honestly[7] 19: The woman said to him Sir I perceive that you are a prophet 20: Our fathers worshipped in this mountain and you say that in Jerusalem is the place where [we] ought to worship[8] 2 Chronicles 6:6 21: Iesous said to her Madam believe me the hour comes when you shall neither in this mountain nor yet at Jerusalem, worship the Father 22: You worship you know not what we know what we worship for salvation is from the Jews 23: But the hour is come even is now when the true worshippers shall worship the Father by [the] Pneuma[9] and by [the] truth[10] for the Father seeks such to worship him 24: Ho Theos is a Pneuma and they that worship him must worship him by [the] Pneuma and by [the] truth 25: The woman said to him I know that Messias comes which is called Christos when he is come he will tell us all things[11] 26: Jesus said to her I who speak to you am he[12] 27: And upon this came his disciples and marvelled that he talked with the woman yet none said What seekest thou or Why talk thou with her 28: The woman then left her waterpot and went her way into the city and said to anthropos[13] 29: Come see a man which told me all things that ever I did is not this Ho Christos 30: Then they went out of the city and came to him 31: In the mean while his disciples prayed him saying Master eat 32: But he said to them I have food to eat that you know not of 33: Therefore said the disciples one to another Has any one brought him [anything] to eat? 34: Iesous said to them My food is to complete that which has been determinedLuke 22:22 [by the one who] sent me and to finish the work. 35: Do not you say [that] There are yet four months and then comes harvest look I say to you Lift up your eyes and look on the fields for they are white already to harvest 36: And reapers receive wages and gather fruit unto life eternal that both sowers and reapers may rejoice together 37: And herein is that saying true One sows and another reaps 38: I sent you to reap that whereon you bestowed no labor others labored and you are entered into their labors 39: And many of the Samaritans of that city believed on him for the saying of the woman[14] who testified He told me all that ever I did 40: So when the Samaritans had come to him they asked him if he would stay a while with them and he stayed there two days 41: And many more believed because of his own word 42: And said to the woman Now we believe not because of your saying [but] because we have heard him ourselves[15] and know that this is indeed ho Christos the Savior of the world 43: Now after two days he departed from there and went into Galilee




[1] There was a woman there he needed to see. He was going to reach out in love to a woman who was outcast and desperately lonely. 
[2] This fact must have come from spoken tradition as the Hebrew scriptures record the coat of many colors given to Joseph by his father, Jacob, and the jealousy of his brothers, but nothing about a parcel of land. The question is, was the land given to Joseph while he was still young, before he was sold into slavery by his brothers (at age 17), or was it bequeathed to him later while they were all still in Egypt?  
[3] Statements like this give us a glimpse into the humanity of Jesus. He had walked a long way. He was tired. His feet probably hurt. He was thirsty. He sat on the well. It felt good to sit down. God became just like us. He experienced everything we experience Hebrews 5:15.
[4] The Samaritans descended from Jacob through his grandson, Ephraim, one of the two sons of Joseph.
[5] This woman suffered so much from the treatment she received of others that she waited until she could be reasonably sure that no one else would be at the well when she arrived, so she came in the heat of the day to draw her water. This well was apparently not in the middle of town at a convenient location, so the walk to and from it was better made when the sun was not yet high. Yet here was this woman at high noon only just arriving at the well. The cruel treatment she received from others, who came to the well during the cooler times of the day, must have been unbearable for her. The town well also served a second purpose as a social hub for the women as they came together to draw water each morning (we see an example of this in the Book of Ruth, where the well was the place Naomi reunited with the town’s women when she returned to Bethlehem-Judah from her long sojourn into Moab). But it was not for this un-named Samaritan woman to enjoy a morning visit with other women who met together in the cool of each morning. She apparently had few friends among these women. She was not an accepted part of a crowd who no doubt snubbed or jabbed at her with painful, malicious remarks. She was a social reject. She likely felt rejected by God as well. But she wasn’t. And Jesus went out of his way, into territory hated and avoided by respectable Jews, to tell her this. It was to a woman who was outcast in her community that Jesus felt compelled to travel through Samaria to see.
[6] What would have happened if the woman had not been honest with Jesus about her marital status? Would she have run back to town to fetch her “husband” only to find no one at the well waiting for her when she returned? Jesus made the first move. He started the conversation that changed this woman’s life—If she could pass the honesty test. He reached out to her with full knowledge of the fact that she was living in sin with a man she was not married to. But before he would continue, he required honesty. She had to come clean in order for Jesus to reveal the truth that would set her free. 
[7] There are a few things to note about Jesus’ answer. The gentleness with which Jesus confronted her sin is an example we should learn to emulate. Her honest answer about her marital status wasn’t a confession really, but she did not pretend to be a respectably married woman when she wasn’t. Even had she offered the details of her sin, she would not have been condemned for it—as we know from the rest of the discourse.

It is commonly asserted that this woman had been divorced. There is no basis to assume whether that was the case or not. She could have been. Assuming that she was a divorced woman—as is almost always asserted—it is important to note that Jesus acknowledged each of her five marriages as legitimate by saying she had, had five husbands. He did not suggest that she had anything to ask forgiveness for regarding any of her five marriages. This does not suggest she had never been divorced, but if she had been divorced, then Christians need to ask themselves why one of their most common words of “comfort” to divorced brethren are, “God forgives divorce” when Jesus said no such thing to this woman who had been married five times. Whether she had ever been divorced or not, most Christians have been taught that the woman at the well was a divorced woman. It is important to understand that all divorce is not sin. There are scriptural grounds for divorce, and it is an erroneous and smug position to assume that divorce is always sin when dealing with Christians who have experienced the pain (and undeserved shame heaped on them by other Christians) of it. 

The Woman at the Well could very well have been widowed five times and been considered anathema as a wife. She could have been “put away” by her last husband, and therefore unmarriageable due to the fact that, though he cast her off, refused to legally divorce her in order to avoid paying a divorce settlement. This was a common practice in those days and before. God had harsh things to say through the prophet Malachi about men who dealt treacherously with wives they grew tired of by casting them off. Many Jewish wives were put away but never set free from the marriage by a legal divorce. This forced them to either live in limbo for the rest of their lives, or to marry again, anyway, bringing the label of adulteress on themselves, or to live with a man without being married to him. Regardless of what the case was with the woman at the well, the scriptures do not say “God hates divorce.” It is written that God hates shalachH7971 the putting away (sending away or casting off). Shalach (casting off) without a bill of keriythuwthH3748 (bill of divorce) is not the same as a divorce. The prophet Jeremiah3:8 wrote that God himself cast off Israel and gave her a bill of divorce for adultery against him. The salient points in this verse are 1.) Jesus confronted the woman’s sin but complemented her honesty and dealt gently with her 2.) The scriptures do not record whether her previous marital status was divorced or widowed. It is commonly taught that the woman at the well had been divorced at least once but perhaps multiple times, yet Jesus acknowledged the legitimacy of each of her five marriages and demanded no repentance from her on the issue of adultery/divorce.
[8] Religion is the strongest bond rulers can use to ensure the loyalty of their people, and that is where the bad blood between the kingdoms of Israel and Judah was deliberately solidified by Jeroboam, who had renounced David’s dynasty and became the first king of Israel. Jeroboam introduced idol worship as a national religion to Israel. Samaria, a part of Jeroboam’s kingdom, later, under Omri, became the Capitol city of Israel and eventually became known as home to hybrid Jews—ancient Israelites descended from Joseph [1/2 tribe of Ephraim] who later interbred with Canaanites.
The basis of the Woman at the Well’s argument about where to worship was an ancient argument and was deliberately engendered by two of Israel’s kings, Jeroboam and Omri. The biblical history is as follows: 1 kings 12:25 Then Jeroboam built Shechem in mount Ephraim and dwelt therein and went out from thence and built Penuel 26: And Jeroboam said in his heart Now shall the kingdom return to the house of David 27: If this people go up to do sacrifice in the house of the LORD at Jerusalem then shall the heart of this people turn again unto their lord even unto Rehoboam king of Judah and they shall kill me and go again to Rehoboam king of Judah 28: Whereupon the king took counsel and made two calves of gold and said to them It is too much for you to go up to Jerusalem behold your gods O Israel which brought you up out of the land of Egypt 29: And he set the one in Bethel and the other put he in Dan 30: And this thing became a sin for the people went to worship before the one even unto Dan.
1 Kings 16:23 In the thirty and first year of Asa king of Judah began Omri to reign over Israel twelve years six years reigned he in Tirzah 24: And he bought the hill Samaria of Shemer for two talents of silver and built on the hill and called the name of the city which he built after the name of Shemer owner of the hill Samaria 25: But Omri wrought evil in the eyes of the LORD, and did worse than all that were before him 26: For he walked in all the way of Jeroboam the son of Nebat and in his sin wherewith he made Israel to sin to provoke the LORD God of Israel to anger with their vanities
 
[9] It is only through the Holy Spirit that we can know and worship God. The Holy Spirit must draw us, indwell us, and empower us to worship God.
[10] Jesus is the way the TRUTH and the life. No one comes to the Father but by him. Jesus said the written Word of God as Truth—Thy Word is TRUTH—We must worship God according to his Word, through his risen son, Jesus.
[11] Faith always supersedes theology. In spite of the woman’s bad theology based on history, tradition, and outright lies fed to her ancestors by evil rulers and no doubt by the contemporary religious leaders of her day, nothing could squelch her faith in the coming Messiah. God always honors faith.
[12] The scripture record shows that the first person Jesus declared himself to, was a woman.  If complementarian male headship, as taught by the Council for Biblical Manhood and Womanhood, is true, then Jesus would have asked her to go fetch one of the male heads of the city to stand beside her as he announced to the male who he was, as he knew she—a woman—would immediately run into the city and begin preaching that the Savior had come. But he did not tell her to call the men, first, before revealing his identify. He broke Jewish protocol (shocked his disciples into stunned silence) and kept a divine appointment with a woman. He then entrusted this woman, who was an absolute social outcast and held to bad Samaritan theology, with the first announcement ever that he was the long awaited Messiah.
[13] The unfortunate fact of translating the word anthropos as men in this verse has slandered The Woman at the Well, and forever sullied her reputation in associating her with being a prostitute when there is no scriptural evidence to support this assumption. When she went into the city to preach the gospel that Jesus was Messiah, there is no reason to believe she went only to males. She more likely announced this fact loudly and publicly to any person within earshot, and the crowd that came out of the city to see Jesus was no doubt a mixed crowd of both men and women. There is no textual reason why anthropos should be translated as men in this verse. The word is just as accurately translated as people or person and can refer to either females, males, or mixed crowds of both, or to the human race in general; it all depends upon the context. Although Greek is an androcentric (male centered) language—as is English and most other languages—the Greek word, anthropos, is not unique to just males. 
[14] The first woman on record to publicly preach Jesus as Messiah, was Anna, the elderly prophetess (preacher) at the temple. Later, there were women among the 120 at Pentecost preaching (prophesying) the good news of Jesus in the street at Jerusalem. But the Woman at the Well is indisputably the second woman on record to preach the gospel—loudly and authoritatively—to a public audience composed of both men and women. And Christian women have been following suit for over 2000 years, in spite of fierce opposition from men determined to silence the Daughters of God from fulfilling their callings. The Woman at the Well did not stop to ask male permission before racing off and authoritatively declaring the good news of the Savior in public (by any standard, that is preaching), and Jesus did not rebuke her for it or tell her that preaching the gospel was a job for men only. The early church recognized women apostles (Junia), women deacons (Phoebe), women teachers of doctrine (Priscilla), women who preached and prayed publicly (Acts 2:17). It was not until later—as the church became politicized—that the ordination of women was discouraged and finally forbidden. In more recent times, The Southern Baptist Convention (SBC) and Moody Bible Institute ordained and recognized women as pastors until the complementarian (male headship) movement, which began in 1987 with the Danvers Statement, put a stop to it. Now women are not even permitted to take pastoral courses at complementarian Bible colleges. 
[15] Do we detect a hint of misogyny in this statement? Did their decision to believe that Jesus was Messiah have to be qualified because of the low reputation of the person who had led them to him, or was it simply because that person was a woman? “Now we believe “not” because of what you said…” They had listened to her long enough for her to lead them to the water of life—which they joyfully drank from—and then, as respecters of persons, appear to have acted on a sinful need to distance themselves from her. How many Christians, today, because of caste or low social standing, feel outcast among God’s people—among those who call themselves brethren? This should not be so among any who call themselves by the name of Christ. Could this scene in John Chapter four be a brief glimpse into how the new believers of Samaria were disinclined to let go of the familiar, yet destructive and cruel, caste system for the seemingly new, but completely forgotten to them, system of equality re-introduced by Jesus Genesis 1:27-28, 5:2? Even Peter fell prey to strong—but utterly sinful and divisive—cultural traditions Galatians 2:11-14 Could this scene at the Samaritan well be an example of the war between the two natures of audawm—the physical and the spiritual? Were the people of Samaria already rejecting their messenger of good tidings because of who she was? If they were, we can be sure Jesus set them straight on that score, as he stayed and taught them for two more days. No one comes to Christ except the Spirit lead them—regardless of who the messenger is. To reject the messenger because of reputation, or sex—or both—is wrong. And it appears the people of Samaria were attempting to do just that. The act of coming to Christ is just the beginning. Everyone begins their new life in Christ at the same place—as newly born-again babes—and must grow spiritually from there. The ground is level at the cross, and spiritual growth can only be accomplished through feeding from (and obedience to) the Word of God—the Bible—as illuminated by the Spirit of God 1 John 3:27. Jesus said knowing the Word is never enough, but one must be a doer of the Word as well Matthew 7:24-27.


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